"Ariane thought, well, I'm new to Adlai. With him I can be who I want to be. With Grisham -- she touched his knee with her hand -- I have to be who he thinks I am. With Adlai I get to recreate myself, be better than I am. With him it's invention; with Grisham it's performance."
~John Dufresne from his novel, Deep in the Shade of Paradise.